You’re tired of hearing how you ‘should’ think, feel, and behave.
Running from rejection, you find yourself bending over backwards to please others.
Being clear about your needs and having boundaries feels like a luxury you can’t afford these days.
Sometimes life feels ‘out of control’ and acting out feels like the only ‘reasonable’ thing to do.
You don’t have to disown yourself in order to survive.
Do you have the experience of behaving ‘less’ than yourself so that others aren’t ‘made uncomfortable’? You have a disguise for every occasion.
And forget speaking to your family about what you experience; they wouldn’t understand. In fact, you hear family members say things that have you convinced they won’t accept you or like you if they know who you really are.
You have felt different from the rest of your family for as far back as you can remember.
It didn’t feel safe to ask questions of your family and share your fears about yourself. You didn’t want to appear as too different, so you learned to put on an act and play the part of ‘normal.’
Growing up believing that maybe you weren’t even acceptable to the ‘God’ of your family and community, there didn’t seem to be real security anywhere. You have become so good at performing instead of being, you’re just not sure who you are.
And, you’re angry and exhausted. Angry that there is no room in your life to be all of yourself and be loved for who that is. And exhausted from putting on an act.
You are already whole, complete, authentic, acceptable, and lovable.
Here, together, there is a safe space for you to be ALL of who you are…
As the mother of an agender child and as a person who grew up struggling with gender and sexual identity, it’s not just ‘important’ that I am an ally, it is fundamental in getting the support you deserve.
I will stand with you until all the voices that say, ‘You are broken and unacceptable’ become ludicrous notions.
Those lies will lose any power to dominate your life.
All that glitters in our “best, brightest, most powerful” culture is not gold.
In fact, it’s just the opposite.
YOU are the gold.
It’s time to know that, and not just in some abstract way… It’s time to experience it with your whole being.
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